Life is not a bed of roses. It is not the case with me and you alone - it is true for any living human-being. BUT, with simple changes in our mindset, we can grow as many roses in our life as we want.
Here is a simple RAT principle. Results we get in our life are nothing but outcomes of our Actions which go hand-in-hand with our Thoughts. This means that if our Thoughts are good then our Actions will be good and so will be the Results.
But, always getting good thoughts alone is quite inhumane. Here comes the need to condition thoughts coming in our mind. These thoughts can be emotions, ideas, or certain beliefs. So, learn to control your emotions. Let ideas that are constructive come to your mind. Verify the rationale behind your beliefs before following them blindly.
So, if you learn to discard any negative thoughts and let only positive ones enter your mind then you will get the results you want in your life through your right and timely actions. One good result means one more rose in your life.
Saying things are easy than doing. So, things will not change overnight. BUT, remember practice makes a man perfect. So, daily effort of developing a constructive mindset will change change your life in weeks forever.
Try to improve upon daily. The moment a negative thought comes in your mind, immediately shout inside "Shut-up Shut-up" and the thought will go away.
Maintain a journal of how many roses you get daily and let these increase day by day.
Wishing you a happy rose cultivation in your life,
Syed Feroz Zainvi
