- Don't sell yourself short
- Conquer the foe of self-deprication
- Concentrate on your assets
- Use big, bright cheerful words that promise victory
- Avoid words that create failure
- Stretch your vision
- Practice adding value to things, people, and especially yourself
- Keep your mind above trivial things
- Make an effort to put only positive thoughts in your memory bank, refuse to recall unpleasant events or situations
- Remember to keep people in proper perspective; develop an understanding attitude
- Make everything you do say "I'm confident, really confident."
- be a front seater
- make eyecontact
- walk 20% faster
- speak up
- smile big
- Look important
- Think your work is important
- Give yourself a pep-talk several times daily
- Be environment conscious
- Make your environment work for you, not against you
- Don't let small thinking people hold you back
- Get your advice from successful people
- Get plenty of psychological sunshine; circulate in new groups; discover new and stimulating things to do
- Throw thought poison out of your environment; stay on the positive side
10 RULES To Remember
- Learn to remember names
- Be a comfortable person
- Acquire the quality of being relaxed
- Don't be egotistical
- Cultivate the quality of being interested
- Study to get the scratchy elements out of your personality (even subsonscious ones)
- Sincerely attempt to heal every misunderstanding you've had
- Practice liking people
- Never miss an opportunity to congratulate or express sympathy
- Give spiritual strength